The higher caste Indians hate darker skinned Indians and thus many in the upper caste are insecure of their own brownness.

East Asian or Chinese, Japanese etc. Or oriental if they are racist.

Did you know that in the UK when people use the term Asian they mean people with South Asian ethnicity.

She’s probably a self hating Asian who would rather have a racist partner as long as he’s white than be with an Asian man. It’s like short women who only want a tall partner because they feel insecure and need to compensate. But here it’s a woman who feels that her non-whiteness is inferior and thus she needs to compensate by marrying a white man. And with that inferiority complex she attracts racist men.

There are way too many racist white man with an Asian wife for it to be a coincidence.